The current Nvidia driver supports GBM, Wayland and hardware acceleration with XWayland just fine. (since 470.x series driver)
There is no timeline for "this to enter the kernel", that's not how any of this works. -> the Nvidia driver is an external kernel module. The driver itself will support various GFX cards and kernel versions, usually kernel support is fairly up to date. -> The Nvidia driver has some shim code and you build it against your kernel (or your distribution / package maintainer has already done this for you)... that is the extent of kernel support needed.
Every distro is different and given that there are handfuls of them, I certainly could not answer your question, but; Archlinux, Fedora, etc all support running Wayland + Nvidia just fine. Basically, any modern distro shipping up-to-date or bleeding edge software.
That all said, surely there are some cases where Nvidia + Wayland may have some rough edges (your second link about hybrid GFX may be one). In other cases, depending on what software you rely on; Wayland may not be a good option -- Say, for example; if you rely on software written for Xorg that doesn't run properly in XWayland or where there is no Wayland counterpart.
Personally, while I am not currently an nvida user (AMD here) -- I still do not use Wayland because Gnome-Wayland is too rough around the edges for me and more importantly; I have software that I rely on that requires Xorg; XWayland won't work (so Wayland isn't an option anyway).
If you colleague has good reason to use/prefer Nvidia -- they will not be forced to use Wayland. They could try it out and always switch back to an Xorg session, instead.
EDIT: As suggested below, it would probably be a good idea to do some research on potential issues your colleague might face, with both software and hardware. For example, you could consult bug trackers for your preferred Desktop Environment and also research the laptop's linux support, in general.