Why not slow the process down and take some care
Get the comparison of duplicates from fdupes and put it in a file.
fdupes -r /path/to/start > filesToDelete
Then, at your own speed, you can remove any directories or files you want to keep from the filesToDelete
To remove entire directories
sed -i '|/directoryToKeep/|d' filesToDelete
Work through filesToDelete in your preferred text editor and put a marker (maybe an x?) at the beginning of the copy of each file you want to keep so you can keep track of what you have done, and then, when you are sure of the changes
cat aFile | xargs -d "\n" rm
rm will throw an error at each line with an x (as well as at any comment or other lines generated by fdupes) but do nothing to those files. It will, however, delete all of the unmarked valid filename entries in filesToDelete.