Try:
$ sudo /etc/init.d/sshd restart
systemd
If that doesn't work and your using a distro such as Fedora/CentOS/RHEL and it's using systemd then try this:
$ systemctl sshd.service reload
You can get all the commands that sshd.service will accept by doing this. Hit the Tab key after typing the following:
$ systemctl sshd.service
cancel emergency is-enabled list-unit-files reload-or-restart start
condreload enable is-failed list-units reload-or-try-restart status
condrestart exit isolate load rescue stop
condstop force-reload kexec mask reset-failed suspend
daemon-reexec halt kill poweroff restart try-restart
daemon-reload help link preset set-environment unmask
default hibernate list-dependencies reboot show unset-environment
delete hybrid-sleep list-jobs reenable show-environment
disable is-active list-sockets reload snapshot
If it's a Debian/Ubuntu system they use upstart to mange services, at least with the newer versions.
See my answer to this Q&A titled: How to “close” open ports?. I discuss your options for using upstart & systemd further in that answer.
Neither?
You could use kill to send the SIGHUP signal to the running process if none of the above are appropriate for your particular distro.
$ pkill -1 sshd
Will send signal 1 (SIGHUP) to the sshd process. If you don't have the pkill or pgrep family of commands you can use ps.
$ ps -eaf | grep sshd
1234
Then take that process ID and send it a signal using the kill command.
$ kill -1 1234
Signals
If you ever forget which ones are which you can use the kill command to find out via the -l switch.
Example
$ kill -l
1) SIGHUP 2) SIGINT 3) SIGQUIT 4) SIGILL 5) SIGTRAP
6) SIGABRT 7) SIGBUS 8) SIGFPE 9) SIGKILL 10) SIGUSR1
11) SIGSEGV 12) SIGUSR2 13) SIGPIPE 14) SIGALRM 15) SIGTERM
16) SIGSTKFLT 17) SIGCHLD 18) SIGCONT 19) SIGSTOP 20) SIGTSTP
21) SIGTTIN 22) SIGTTOU 23) SIGURG 24) SIGXCPU 25) SIGXFSZ
26) SIGVTALRM 27) SIGPROF 28) SIGWINCH 29) SIGIO 30) SIGPWR
31) SIGSYS 34) SIGRTMIN 35) SIGRTMIN+1 36) SIGRTMIN+2 37) SIGRTMIN+3
38) SIGRTMIN+4 39) SIGRTMIN+5 40) SIGRTMIN+6 41) SIGRTMIN+7 42) SIGRTMIN+8
43) SIGRTMIN+9 44) SIGRTMIN+10 45) SIGRTMIN+11 46) SIGRTMIN+12 47) SIGRTMIN+13
48) SIGRTMIN+14 49) SIGRTMIN+15 50) SIGRTMAX-14 51) SIGRTMAX-13 52) SIGRTMAX-12
53) SIGRTMAX-11 54) SIGRTMAX-10 55) SIGRTMAX-9 56) SIGRTMAX-8 57) SIGRTMAX-7
58) SIGRTMAX-6 59) SIGRTMAX-5 60) SIGRTMAX-4 61) SIGRTMAX-3 62) SIGRTMAX-2
63) SIGRTMAX-1 64) SIGRTMAX
References